The star-crossed thingy.
Being unmarried in a long-term relationship is nothing to be proud of. In one side of the world, you are being pressured to tie the eternity bond whilst on the other (with bigger authority) says no, finish your study before all this relationshit. If you are the eldest child in the family, you are bound to earn a degree and get a good job to help your parents' with younger siblings' education. For additional hassles, if you used to be known as someone religious back at school, you are bound to be flocked with a group of (religious) friends who will pressure you about the greatness of marriage in the path of God etc. Not to mention, if one of you has divorced/conventional/prematurely-married parents, the debate goes from considerable to extreme horror.
No one is right and no one is wrong. Everything seems to be coincidentally colliding and the damages are on those two young poor things.
Listen to me, these sorts of couples are completely all-eared to listen to advises and tips or what not but pay attention to their pressure. My advice is perhaps you should be in their shoes, walk a great mile and try hard to rephrase your opinions.
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Tbh I meant to write some other things but I ended up writing this.
I tried to do some reviews for Asian Literature assignment but I got carried away from the topic. So I broke down but instead of crying, I went to sleep.
This sort of thing has happened so concurrently that I finally realized it was a cry for help from my brain.
'Tis quite decided that I needed another run. Thus, I have planned to block all my weekends from June 15th until practicum. Not a single human being can make me do what I refuse to do on those weekends.
p/s originally R&J is the title of this post but I wrote about other stuff
